Archive for the ‘self-growth’ Category

i have several questions: what do i want? where would i be happiest living and with whom? must i know asap or can i wait and not lose any important opportunities? how do you know before you get there? i am practicing being patient with myself – because, really, why should i know the answers […]


– I accept and love myself even though not everybody else in the world does, dammit! – I am here for me me me me first, dammit! – I am grateful, thankful, and appreciative of all the abundance of good and wonderful things in my life, dammit! – I vow to practice taking everything less […]


I’ve been making shit “life decisions” since around the time I graduated from college. It wasn’t that many years ago, but it feels like ages. Law school. Yes. NO! Move back to my native town instead of trying harder to make things right so I don’t have to. NO NO NO! That one really fucked […]


Deepak Chopra replies: Relationship Is a Daily Rescue Although the differences between men and women have been much emphasized, there’s one thing that both sexes must do in a relationship: rescue love. Relationships are happy where love is nurtured. They begin to fray around the edges when love is compromised, and they end when love is gone. […]


it took me weeks to get back to her. apparently, we had a [massive] misunderstanding last time we got together. she was there with a bunch of people while the plan was to play basketball, just us. who were they? why wasn’t she greeting me? why was i being ignored? why was i, after 5 […]


march 25

25Mar09

i haven’t had sex in like a month. i guess i’ve been having sex about once a month. it used to be once a week, and that is low. i just don’t feel like it. it must be my new birth control pillz… unrelated: my bf watches youporn DOT com. wtf. i didn’t even know […]


i am grateful for – 1. vitamins and minerals available to humans in pill form and over the counter 2. getting invited to people’s houses for dinner 3. socks 4. sneakers 5. shoelaces that don’t get untied easily by themselves 6. nudity 7. privacy 8. silence 9. speakers 10. volume regulation 11. youtube 12. the […]